The doula does not take the place of the father but compliments and enhances their experience.

Today, more fathers are taking an active role in the birth of their child and sometimes this can feel like a huge responsibility with many expectations placed on them to be the sole labor authority.

With a doula as part of the birth team, the father can be involved in any way he feels comfortable with at any given moment. Doulas will encourage and support the father and can suggest when to use a particular comfort measure, or step in to give him a much-needed break.

Having a doula allows the father to be able to support the mother emotionally while still enjoying the birth himself... without the pressure of having to remember everything learned in childbirth class!

Alternatively, for the father who is naturally comfortable with taking a more active role, the doula's experience and sensitivity will allow her to determine where and when she is needed.

In essence, a doula can help the father find his role with confidence, thus strengthening the bond between you, and empowering both of you to have the birth you want.